Message Title: Building Effective Relationships and Marriages with Doctor S. Chirisa
This type of message will help those that are married and especial those that are about to get married. If you are not married this will help you to navigate the marriage space in a better way
There is no marriage without its own issues, whether you are handsome with a six pack or a woman with a coca cola bottle figure, even when you are Mr. or Mrs. Perfect you are bound to have some friction because marriage is a composition of two different people with two different backgrounds and with different expectations. It is a fantasy to say that you are going to live happily ever after, you are going to have some time where you are going to have some issues.
The man always take time to get help, and by the time they seek help their marriage is already like Lazarus in a tomb stinking and they is no Jesus to resurrect it. So never wait until your marriage is gone always opt to seek help early. Many are times in marriages when we have blind spots, you cannot see the back of your head. We cannot see clearly and sometimes cannot even identify when we are wrong. In marriage never delay to seek council. The culprits are always the man because they say they don’t want anyone to rule in their houses.
Before entering a marriage your need to know the things marriage is built on:
1. Companionship: That is is friendship, understanding each other and doing things together
If you do not deal with your marriage before you deal with church after church you will always get back home to live in a pressure cooker and this sucks up the strength and energy of the marriage. Marriage is so important we need to make it pivotal because everything is dependent on marriage. When was the last time you laughed and had fun in your marriage or it has all become mechanical where the only sound conversations is about paying debts and getting basic needs.
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2.Communication: Couples needs to understand that about 70% of communication is none verbal. Know your partners gestures and moods. Always know the rules of marriage and when you are fighting fight clean do not go dirty. Its important to decide that when you are going to disagree you are going to disagree clean.
3. Character: Always have a good and lovable character
Six Areas Of Life That Affect Marriage and Relationships:
1. Sex Life: If you do not have that for a year your marriage becomes dull
2. Financial Life: When there is no money the marriage is full of anger. And when money because too much it takes the colour of the heart and kills character
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4. Spiritual Life.
5. In-Laws Life: We support the in-laws according to need. They 50/50 kind of support seems fair but its foolishness always learn to support according to need.
6. Your Own Home and Family: Your first responsibility as a pastor is your family not the church. Be always responsible of your wife or husband and children. Learn to protect your own family. Do not be caught up in taking care of others whilst neglecting your own states of marriage.
Check These Three Types Of Marriages:
1. Great Marriage.
2. Sick Marriage.
3. Dead marriage
You need to analyze your marriage and know its state. A good marriage is based less on love and more on rffort and knowledge
The Stages Of Marriages:
1. Infatuation Stage: This is the first 6 to 12 months of the marriage. Where everything is beautiful.
2. Discovery Stage: This is where you get to know the flows and weaknesses of your partners and usually most divorces are found in this stage ...
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Pastor Sacrifice Chirisa is the founder and visionary of Wisdom City Ministries International.
The Mission of his church is to impact, develop and equip nations for ministry through God’s wisdom. The church was founded by senior pastors Dr S.M Chirisa and D Chirisa in 2012; they received a call 7 years prior. The first church service was on the 4th of March, 2012 .
Since then, the church has grown and continues to grow in both size and influence.
The Tiyambuke International Christian Convention (TICC) is an annual gathering of Christian believers from various denominations, organized by Glory Ministries under the leadership of Apostle Pride and Anna Sibiya.
With its inception in 2001, TICC has grown to become one of the largest conferences in Zimbabwe.
The convention's name, "Tiyambuke," meaning "Let Us Cross Over," reflects its mission to lead people out of ignorance, sin, and bondage into a life of knowledge, love for God, health, prosperity, and freedom.
